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T O P I C R E V I E WAnastasiyaEnchantedCan you consciously change the pattern of attracting people that are represented by your 7th house? Lets say that it shows in your chart that you attract relationships that are bad/difficult for your self growth can you somehow change that and start attracting the people you want? Or is this like our destiny to attract what is in our chart? Like for example, my 7th, 8th and 5th house strongly show that I attract Saturn or Capricorn energy. This is true. Even though I get along with Capricorn men, I don't necessarily want to have a relationship with them for other reasons. But no matter what I do or where I go, a Capricorn ALWAYS seems to find me. Its like I am a magnet for them. I don't have anything against capricorns btw I just want to know if you can change who you attract? LeeLoo2014 Why wouldn't you want to have relationships with Caps? What other reasons?------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...AnastasiyaEnchanted quote:Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Why wouldn't you want to have relationships with Caps? What other reasons?Like I said I like capricorns and get along with but specifically for me I need to stay away from Saturn influenced men because (according to my karma) they will limit my freedom and make me feel trapped. That's what I was told by an astrologer who did a reading for me. Hope I didn't offend you LeeLoo2014Hahaha why would you offend me? I think what that person told you is crap, sorry There is no such thing. Well, at least in my opinion Usually, the taste for Saturn comes with age. In early youth, the energy of Saturn is perceived as "restrictive". Perhaps that's why you feel this way?? Although, if you say you get along with Caps/Saturn, I still don't get the logic behind your idea.Anyway, one doesn't have to have partners with the Sun sign of their DSC; I have Leo in the 7th and I like Leo Suns only as friends so far BUT a partner for me must aspect my Sun and Moon and have some Leo energy. It all depends on the makeup of your chart. Perhaps your chart needs only some placements in Cap or with Saturn, not necessarily the Sun.------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...Blind writerWhy would you stay away? SATURN is the great teacher, and if these types keep finding you, it's indicative there is some lesson you must bravely face. SATURN hounds you like that. You shouldn't purposefully avoid people based on their astrological placements. All you need are open eyes on yourself, and realize everyone you meet has a vital part in your life, no matter how trivial, and each one is invaluable. Embrace SATURN, and he will reward your efforts.starmoon quote:Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:Can you consciously change the pattern of attracting people that are represented by your 7th house? Lets say that it shows in your chart that you attract relationships that are bad/difficult for your self growth can you somehow change that and start attracting the people you want? Or is this like our destiny to attract what is in our chart? Like for example, my 7th, 8th and 5th house strongly show that I attract Saturn or Capricorn energy. This is true. Even though I get along with Capricorn men, I don't necessarily want to have a relationship with them for other reasons. But no matter what I do or where I go, a Capricorn ALWAYS seems to find me. Its like I am a magnet for them. I don't have anything against capricorns btw I just want to know if you can change who you attract? personally, i don't think so. what you attract is a combination of the aspects in your chart, your ascendant and what people see, and just the energies you are putting out there which are generally very unconscious and innate. i ALWAYS attract aqua men with sun/moon/venus and i really have no interest in them (any more). i have tried to alter my appearance and tweek things about my presentation to attract a different type, but personality, i think, will always come through. you can't change who you are, at least not long enough to make a difference. but you can certainly choose to not date the types you are attracting and either a) wait for someone else to come along that is a better astro match or b) go find someone who fits what you need. after tons and tons of aqua men i took a look at my chart and really looked hard at what would suit me better and now i just turn down all the aquas and accept dates from people i think will "help" my own placements flourishHelixIDI like to compare the Descendant to Jung's anima/animus concept. Just as the anima/animus is the part of our psychological makeup that we supress and PROJECT on OTHER people, the Descendant is the same. It represents qualities that we seek in other people and don't readily acknowledge as being part of our own personality. In the end, mating is really the journey to our own inner Self. And as long as a person has not undergone the process of individuation, one will attract one's own Descendant. LeeLoo2014 quote:Originally posted by HelixID:I like to compare the Descendant to Jung's anima/animus concept. Just as the anima/animus is the part of our psychological makeup that we supress and PROJECT on OTHER people, the Descendant is the same. It represents qualities that we seek in other people and don't readily acknowledge as being part of our own personality. In the end, mating is really the journey to our own inner Self. And as long as a person has not undergone the process of individuation, one will attract one's own Descendant. Aries23DegreesI don't think there is aything that you can do about whom you attract. But there is something that you can do about whom you are attracted to. As 7th house,together with Venus,suggests what you like.What planets do you have on the 7th house? If not any,where is the ruler of the 7th situated?Also look at personal planet aspects to Venus.This influences your attraction(inward tendencies)Whilst Venus aspects to other planets suggests what you give your attention to- what you adore.I'm so cappyI have Sun conjunct DSC ruler. I'm attracted to myself ------------------I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.
Why wouldn't you want to have relationships with Caps? What other reasons?
------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...
quote:Originally posted by LeeLoo2014: Why wouldn't you want to have relationships with Caps? What other reasons?
Like I said I like capricorns and get along with but specifically for me I need to stay away from Saturn influenced men because (according to my karma) they will limit my freedom and make me feel trapped. That's what I was told by an astrologer who did a reading for me. Hope I didn't offend you
Usually, the taste for Saturn comes with age. In early youth, the energy of Saturn is perceived as "restrictive". Perhaps that's why you feel this way?? Although, if you say you get along with Caps/Saturn, I still don't get the logic behind your idea.
Anyway, one doesn't have to have partners with the Sun sign of their DSC; I have Leo in the 7th and I like Leo Suns only as friends so far BUT a partner for me must aspect my Sun and Moon and have some Leo energy. It all depends on the makeup of your chart. Perhaps your chart needs only some placements in Cap or with Saturn, not necessarily the Sun.
quote:Originally posted by AnastasiyaEnchanted:Can you consciously change the pattern of attracting people that are represented by your 7th house? Lets say that it shows in your chart that you attract relationships that are bad/difficult for your self growth can you somehow change that and start attracting the people you want? Or is this like our destiny to attract what is in our chart? Like for example, my 7th, 8th and 5th house strongly show that I attract Saturn or Capricorn energy. This is true. Even though I get along with Capricorn men, I don't necessarily want to have a relationship with them for other reasons. But no matter what I do or where I go, a Capricorn ALWAYS seems to find me. Its like I am a magnet for them. I don't have anything against capricorns btw I just want to know if you can change who you attract?
personally, i don't think so. what you attract is a combination of the aspects in your chart, your ascendant and what people see, and just the energies you are putting out there which are generally very unconscious and innate. i ALWAYS attract aqua men with sun/moon/venus and i really have no interest in them (any more). i have tried to alter my appearance and tweek things about my presentation to attract a different type, but personality, i think, will always come through. you can't change who you are, at least not long enough to make a difference. but you can certainly choose to not date the types you are attracting and either a) wait for someone else to come along that is a better astro match or b) go find someone who fits what you need. after tons and tons of aqua men i took a look at my chart and really looked hard at what would suit me better and now i just turn down all the aquas and accept dates from people i think will "help" my own placements flourish
Just as the anima/animus is the part of our psychological makeup that we supress and PROJECT on OTHER people, the Descendant is the same. It represents qualities that we seek in other people and don't readily acknowledge as being part of our own personality. In the end, mating is really the journey to our own inner Self. And as long as a person has not undergone the process of individuation, one will attract one's own Descendant.
quote:Originally posted by HelixID:I like to compare the Descendant to Jung's anima/animus concept. Just as the anima/animus is the part of our psychological makeup that we supress and PROJECT on OTHER people, the Descendant is the same. It represents qualities that we seek in other people and don't readily acknowledge as being part of our own personality. In the end, mating is really the journey to our own inner Self. And as long as a person has not undergone the process of individuation, one will attract one's own Descendant.
But there is something that you can do about whom you are attracted to. As 7th house,together with Venus,suggests what you like.
What planets do you have on the 7th house? If not any,where is the ruler of the 7th situated?
Also look at personal planet aspects to Venus.This influences your attraction(inward tendencies)
Whilst Venus aspects to other planets suggests what you give your attention to- what you adore.
------------------I'm sooo happy! I mean, cappy.
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